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Mary Anna Custis Lee
Wife of Robert E. Lee

Mary Anna Custis Lee

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Wife of Robert E. Lee
A.K.A.
Mary Anna Randolph Custis Lee
Gender
Female
Place of birth
Clarke County, USA
Place of death
Lexington, USA
Age
65 years
Residence
Arlington House, USA
Family
Children:
William Henry Fitzhugh Lee Robert E. Lee, Jr. George Washington Custis Lee Mary Custis Lee Anne Carter Lee Eleanor Agnes Lee Mildred Childe Lee
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Biography

Mary Anna Randolph Custis Lee (October 1, 1807 – November 5, 1873) was the great-granddaughter of Martha Custis Washington and wife of Robert E. Lee, the prominent career military officer who commanded the Confederate Army of Northern Virginia during the American Civil War. They married at her parents' home, Arlington House, in Virginia in 1831, and had seven children together; he predeceased her by three years.

Biography

Lee was descended from several colonial and Southern families, including the Parke Custises, Fitzhughs, Dandriges, Randolphs, Rolfes, and Gerards. Through her paternal grandmother, Eleanor Calvert, she descended from Charles Calvert, 5th Baron Baltimore, making her a descendant of Charles II of England and Scotland. Through her mother, Mary Lee Fitzhugh Custis, she was a descendant of William Fitzhugh. It is said her paternal great-great-grandfather, 5th Baron Calvert, fathered an illegitimate son, Benedict Swingate Calvert by Melusina von der Schulenburg, Countess of Walsingham, mistress of George I.


Mary Anna Custis Lee was the only surviving child of George Washington Parke Custis, George Washington's step-grandson and adopted son and founder of Arlington House, and Mary Lee Fitzhugh Custis, daughter of William Fitzhugh and Ann Bolling Randolph Fitzhugh. Her godmother, Mary Randolph, the first person recorded buried at Arlington, wrote an early book on housekeeping and cooking. Lee's birth year is usually given as 1808, but it appears in the Custis family Bible and in records kept by her mother as 1807, and is also referred to in a letter her mother wrote in the autumn of 1807. She was born at Annefield in Clarke County, Virginia when her mother's coach stopped there during a journey.She was well educated, having learned both Latin and Greek.

She enjoyed discussing politics with her father, and later with her husband. She kept current with the new literature. After her father's death, she edited and published his writings as Recollections and Private Memoirs of Washington, by his Adopted Son George Washington Parke Custis, with a Memoir of this Author by his Daughter in 1859.

Mrs Lee was diminutive and vivacious. She had known her third cousin, Robert E. Lee, from childhood; her mother and Robert's mother were second cousins, and Lee's father Henry had delivered the eulogy to a crowd of 4,000 at George Washington's 1799 funeral. Among Mary Anna's other suitors was Sam Houston.

Engraving of Mary Anna Custis Lee, 1854

Lee inherited Arlington House from her father after he died in 1857. The estate had long been the couple's home whenever they were in the area during her husband's military career. She was a gracious hostess and enjoyed frequent visitors. She was a painter, like her father, and painted many landscapes, some of which are still on view at the house. She loved roses and grew many varieties of trees and flowers in the gardens there.

Deeply religious, Lee attended Episcopal services when there was one near the army post. From Arlington, Virginia, the Lees attended Christ Church (Alexandria, Virginia) in Alexandria, which she and Robert had both attended in childhood.

Lee taught her female slaves to read and write and was an advocate of eventual emancipation. She did not free her slaves, but could have under state law of the time. She suffered from rheumatoid arthritis, which became increasingly debilitating with advancing age. By 1861, she was using a wheelchair.

With the advent of the American Civil War, Robert and their sons were called to service in Virginia. Mary Custis Lee delayed evacuating Arlington House until May 15, 1861. Early that month, Robert wrote to his wife saying:

War is inevitable, and there is no telling when it will burst around you ... You have to move and make arrangements to go to some point of safety which you must select. The Mount Vernon plate and pictures ought to be secured. Keep quiet while you remain, and in your preparations ... May God keep and preserve you and have mercy on all our people.

Lee and her daughters initially moved among the several family plantations. In May 1862, she was caught at her son Rooney's White House Plantation in New Kent County behind the Federal lines, as Union forces moved up the York and the Pamunkey rivers toward Richmond. The Union commander, George B. McClellan, allowed her passage through the lines in order to take up residence in Richmond—the city which was also McClellan's campaign goal.

Lee and her daughters settled at 707 East Franklin Street in Richmond for a time. The family next moved to the plantation estate of the Cocke family at Bremo Bluff, where they sought refuge until after the end of the war in November 1865.

After the war, the Lees lived in Powhatan County for a short time before moving to Lexington. Robert E. Lee became president of the Washington College, later renamed Washington and Lee University. Mary Anna Custis Lee visited her beloved Arlington House one last time in 1873, a few months before her death.She was unable to leave her horse carriage due to her debilitating rheumatoid arthritis, hardly recognizing the estate except for a few old oaks and some of the trees that she and Robert had planted.

Mary Anna Custis Lee died at the age of 66, surviving her famous husband by three years. She is buried next to him in the Lee family crypt at Lee Chapel on the campus of Washington and Lee University.

Marriage and family

Mary and Robert were married at her parents' home, Arlington House, on June 30, 1831. They had three sons and four daughters together: George Washington Custis "Custis", William H. Fitzhugh "Rooney", Robert Edward Jr., Mary, Eleanor Agnes (called Agnes), Anne, and Mildred Lee. None of their daughters married.

Ancestry

16. John Custis
16. John Custis
8. Daniel Parke Custis
17. Frances Parke
4. John Parke Custis
18. John Dandridge
9. Martha Dandridge
19. Frances Jones
2. George Washington Parke Custis
20. Charles Calvert, 5th Baron Baltimore
10. Benedict Swingate Calvert
21. Melusina von der Schulenburg, Countess of Walsingham
5. Eleanor Calvert
22. Captain Charles Calvert
11. Elizabeth Calvert
23. Rebecca Gerard
1. Mary Anna Randolph Custis
24. William Fitzhugh
12. Henry Fitzhugh
25. Ann Lee
6. William Fitzhugh
26. Robert Carter I
13. Lucy Carter
27. Betty Landon
3. Mary Lee Fitzhugh
28. William Randolph II
14. Peter Randolph
29. Elizabeth Beverley
7. Ann Bolling Randolph
30. Robert Bolling Jr.
15. Lucy Bolling
31. Anne Mary Cocke
16. John Custis
8. Daniel Parke Custis
17. Frances Parke
4. John Parke Custis
18. John Dandridge
9. Martha Dandridge
19. Frances Jones
2. George Washington Parke Custis
20. Charles Calvert, 5th Baron Baltimore
10. Benedict Swingate Calvert
21. Melusina von der Schulenburg, Countess of Walsingham
5. Eleanor Calvert
22. Captain Charles Calvert
11. Elizabeth Calvert
23. Rebecca Gerard
1. Mary Anna Randolph Custis
24. William Fitzhugh
12. Henry Fitzhugh
25. Ann Lee
6. William Fitzhugh
26. Robert Carter I
13. Lucy Carter
27. Betty Landon
3. Mary Lee Fitzhugh
28. William Randolph II
14. Peter Randolph
29. Elizabeth Beverley
7. Ann Bolling Randolph
30. Robert Bolling Jr.
15. Lucy Bolling
31. Anne Mary Cocke
8. Daniel Parke Custis
17. Frances Parke
4. John Parke Custis
18. John Dandridge
9. Martha Dandridge
19. Frances Jones
2. George Washington Parke Custis
20. Charles Calvert, 5th Baron Baltimore
10. Benedict Swingate Calvert
21. Melusina von der Schulenburg, Countess of Walsingham
5. Eleanor Calvert
22. Captain Charles Calvert
11. Elizabeth Calvert
23. Rebecca Gerard
1. Mary Anna Randolph Custis
24. William Fitzhugh
12. Henry Fitzhugh
25. Ann Lee
6. William Fitzhugh
26. Robert Carter I
13. Lucy Carter
27. Betty Landon
3. Mary Lee Fitzhugh
28. William Randolph II
14. Peter Randolph
29. Elizabeth Beverley
7. Ann Bolling Randolph
30. Robert Bolling Jr.
15. Lucy Bolling
31. Anne Mary Cocke

Cultural references

Harnett Kane's 1953 novel, The Lady of Arlington, is based on Mrs. Lee's life.

Mary Custis Lee is a major supporting character in The Guns of the South, a 1992 science fiction novel by Harry Turtledove.

Dorothy Love's 2016 novel, Mrs. Lee and Mrs. Gray, is based on Lee's dependence upon and friendship with Selina Norris Gray, a Custis family slave who became Lee's housekeeper and confidante.

Mary Anna Custis Lee plays a minor role in Jeff Shaara’s 1996 novel, Gods and Generals.

The contents of this page are sourced from Wikipedia article. The contents are available under the CC BY-SA 4.0 license.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Who was Mary Anna Custis Lee?
Mary Anna Custis Lee was the wife of Confederate General Robert E. Lee and a great-granddaughter of Martha Washington.
Where was Mary Anna Custis Lee born?
Mary Anna Custis Lee was born at Arlington House in Virginia on October 1, 1808.
Who were Mary Anna Custis Lee's parents?
Mary Anna Custis Lee's parents were George Washington Parke Custis and Mary Lee Fitzhugh Custis.
What was the significance of Arlington House?
Arlington House was the Custis family estate and was eventually turned into a military cemetery known as Arlington National Cemetery.
When did Mary Anna Custis Lee marry Robert E. Lee?
Mary Anna Custis Lee married Robert E. Lee on June 30, 1831.
Did Mary Anna and Robert E. Lee have children?
Yes, Mary Anna and Robert E. Lee had seven children together.
What was Mary Anna Custis Lee's involvement during the Civil War?
During the Civil War, Mary Anna Custis Lee supported her husband and his cause but spent most of her time managing the family and dealing with the hardships caused by the war.
What happened to Mary Anna Custis Lee after the Civil War?
After the Civil War, Mary Anna Custis Lee and her family faced financial hardships and were forced to abandon Arlington House. They eventually settled in Lexington, Virginia.
What was Mary Anna Custis Lee's role in preserving her husband's legacy?
Mary Anna Custis Lee worked to publish her husband's memoirs and took an active role in preserving his memory and honor after his death.
When did Mary Anna Custis Lee pass away?
Mary Anna Custis Lee passed away on November 5, 1873, in Lexington, Virginia.
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